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The Art of Manliness

Hosted by Brett McKay

Skills, habits, and character for a flourishing life.

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# · Sep 8, 2026 · 48m 02s
Mark Hertling

Retired three-star General Mark Hertling joins the show to discuss his new book *If I Don't Return*, which grew out of a journal he started during Operation Desert Storm when he faced a real possibility of not coming home to his young sons. The conversation covers the lessons about life, leadership, and character he wanted to pass on, including making every day count, planning for friction, the importance of marriage and friendship, the role of handwritten notes, the moral weight of war, and what it means to build a man.

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# · Sep 1, 2026 · 55m 59s
Angela Duckworth

Angela Duckworth, known for her research on grit, now argues that success isn't solely determined by inner qualities—your environment plays an equal, often overlooked, role. She introduces the three-box model of behavior (person, behavior, situation) and explains why willpower alone is notoriously fallible. The conversation covers how different situations bring out different versions of ourselves, how to reshape our physical, digital, and social surroundings, and why the most effective way to change yourself is to change what's around you—whether that means decluting your desk or relocating entirely.

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# · Aug 25, 2026 · 53m 5s
Mike LeBlanc

Mike LeBlanc, a decorated Marine, Harvard Business School grad, and tech founder, discusses the ancient Greek concept of thumos—the spirited, honor-driven part of the soul—and why men need it today. He explains how thumos helps close the gap between who you are and who you should be, and how physical training, embracing anger productively, and taking decisive action can cultivate it. The conversation covers Socrates' chariot analogy, the 70% solution for overthinking, thumos in leadership, and raising boys to embrace spiritedness rather than repress it. This episode offers a practical philosophy for turning rage and ambition into a force for good.

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# · Aug 18, 2026 · 00:45:06
Charles Duhigg

Charles Duhigg, author of Supercommunicators, explains the matching principle behind connecting with anyone. He shares techniques for identifying what type of conversation you’re having—practical, emotional, or social—so you can align your language and energy with the other person. Duhigg discusses how to navigate emotional conversations, even high-conflict ones, using strategies like deep questions and looping for understanding. He also offers tips for bringing these communication skills into digital interactions. The episode draws on research and Duhigg's reporting to help you become a supercommunicator.

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# · Aug 11, 2026 · 51m 30s
Ian Bogost

Ian Bogost argues that a fulfilling life isn't just about pursuing big components of happiness, but also about embracing the small, everyday moments of gratification that come from tactile interactions like shifting a manual transmission, using a well-made knob, or flipping through a physical menu. He explains how digitization and automation are erasing these small pleasures, leading to a loss of sensory richness. The episode explores ways to reclaim sensory life, such as keeping physical objects around and talking about small pleasures. Bogost also introduces the idea of living life sideways—finding meaning orthogonal to traditional upward trajectories.

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# · Aug 4, 2026 · 50m 49s
Jordan Grumet

Jordan Grumet, author of The Purpose Code, argues that the search for a single, grand purpose—'Big P Purpose'—often leads to anxiety and burnout. Drawing on his own experience as a hospice doctor who left medicine, he explains how chasing a monolithic calling sets an impossibly high bar. Instead, he proposes cultivating multiple 'Little P Purposes'—small, meaningful activities that provide lasting fulfillment and distributed resilience. The conversation covers why purpose talk makes people anxious, how burnout can reframe meaning, and what hospice patients have taught him about a life without regret.

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# · Jul 28, 2026 · 00:52:37
Patrick Deneen

Christopher Nolan's film adaptation has renewed interest in the Odyssey. Professor Patrick Deneen argues that the epic captures a core tension of the American character: the simultaneous longing for home and drive for exploration. Drawing on Tocqueville, Deneen shows how this restlessness defines and sometimes bedevils Americans. The conversation explores how Odysseus models a middle way between superhuman and subhuman temptations, and why his most heroic act may be repentance and humility.

# · Jul 21, 2026 · 01:00:25
John Richardson

Negotiation is not only for high-stakes deals but for everyday interactions like dividing chores or choosing a restaurant. John Richardson, who teaches negotiation at MIT Sloan and learned from legends Roger Fisher and Chris Voss, reveals the core skills of master negotiators: building reciprocity, uncovering what people actually want, and keeping emotions from hijacking judgment. The episode also tackles the often uncomfortable topic of discussing hard numbers — price, salary — and how to approach those conversations with greater confidence and better results.

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# · Jul 14, 2026 · 53m 50s
Jia Jiang

Jia Jiang argues that consistency doesn't have to feel grueling — success comes from designing your work and life so that the right actions feel enjoyable. He contrasts 'hard discipline' (gritting your teeth through suffering) with 'easy discipline' (structuring tasks to become naturally rewarding), using examples from Soviet hockey and his EASY framework. The conversation covers practical tactics like one‑action goals, repetition with variation, and anchoring your efforts in personal identity.

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# · Jul 7, 2026 · 00:50:07
Margie Lachman

In this episode, Margie Lachman, professor of psychology and director of the Lifespan Lab at Brandeis University, busts common misconceptions about midlife. She explains that the midlife crisis isn't as universal as popular culture suggests and that many cognitive abilities actually improve with age. Middle age can be a 'sweet spot' combining physical vitality with hard-earned wisdom. Lachman offers practical mindset shifts and habits to navigate the real challenges of this stage and make the most of what can truly be a prime time of life.

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# · Jun 30, 2026 · 01h13m
H.W. Brands

Historian H.W. Brands joins the Art of Manliness to explore the real man behind the monumental image of George Washington. He traces Washington's rise from ambitious Virginia surveyor to military leader and first president, revealing how his character and judgment shaped the nation. The conversation covers his formative years, his leadership of the Continental Army despite heavy losses, his critical role in holding the fledgling country together, and the lasting precedents he set for the presidency. Brands also considers whether a leader of Washington's style could thrive in modern politics.

# · Jun 23, 2026 · 33m 19s
Derek Coburn

The modern retirement model was designed for a time when people didn't live long past 65, but today many Americans face decades of healthy life after leaving work. Financial advisor Derek Coburn argues this outdated assumption creates unnecessary financial stress and causes people to postpone meaningful experiences. He explains how working even a few extra years can transform the math of retirement planning, and reveals the surprising psychological challenges—like the 'arrival fallacy'—that make unlimited leisure less satisfying than many expect. Coburn encourages reimagining retirement so you can enjoy more of life now while still feeling secure about the future.

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# · Jun 16, 2026 · 58m 52s
Luke Burgis

Luke Burgis, author of The One and the 99, discusses the tension between individuality and belonging. He introduces the concepts of solid self and pseudo self, explaining how families and rites of passage can shape a sturdy identity that can belong without conforming. Modern politics is described as a dysfunctional family, and the episode covers the dangers of performative religion. The conversation offers insights into finding authentic community while maintaining personal integrity.

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# · Jun 9, 2026 · 55m 59s
Steve Kamb

Steve Kamb, founder of Nerd Fitness and author of 'How to Try Again,' shares practical principles for dealing with setbacks and getting back on track. He explains why pausing can be more effective than pushing harder, how to accept reality without giving up, why treating change as an experiment reduces paralysis, and why consistency should be as automatic as brushing your teeth. The episode offers accessible advice for navigating life's detours and building lasting change.

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# · Jun 2, 2026 · 58m 51s
Dr. Milica McDowell

Brett McKay talks with physical therapist Dr. Milica McDowell about the mechanics of walking and how foot health affects overall mobility. McDowell explains why walking speed can act as a hidden vital sign, what creates your unique signature walking style, and how to spot gait inefficiencies that lead to pain. She also discusses whether you should worry about pronation, why stretching isn't the answer for plantar fasciitis, and what to look for in a shoe that supports natural foot function.

# · May 26, 2026 · 1h 12m 2s
Jon Tyson

Jon Tyson created a six-year rite of passage for his son to intentionally guide him from boyhood to manhood. He explains the exercise he used to design it, the symbolic severing dinner with his mother, and the five key shifts he taught. Tyson also discusses why he shifted his son's focus from being a good man to being good at being a man, and why a gap year was part of the plan. The conversation ends with principles any father can apply to raise a capable, confident young man.

# · May 19, 2026 · 00:58:52
Henry Sledge

Henry Sledge, the son of Eugene Sledge, joins the show to discuss his father's legendary war memoir 'With the Old Breed' and his own book 'The Old Breed: The Complete Story Revealed.' They explore why Eugene wrote the book—partly to process his combat trauma and leave a record for his sons—and how he kept notes on scraps of paper inside a New Testament during battle. The conversation covers what made the Pacific theater uniquely hellish, Eugene's decision to enlist as a private rather than an officer, and how the memoir's visceral style came from a scientist's eye and a refusal to glamorize war.

# · May 12, 2026 · 00:45:02
David Epstein

Author David Epstein returns to discuss his new book Inside the Box, exploring how constraints—deadlines, boundaries, and setbacks—spark creativity and productivity. He shares stories behind the periodic table, how a broken arm changed his life, and compares the failure of General Magic to the success of Pixar. The conversation covers why brainstorming fails, how to identify the one bottleneck holding you back, and why settling for "good enough" can lead to more great work.

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# · May 5, 2026 · 50m 56s
Manoush Zomorodi

Manoush Zomorodi, host of the TED Radio Hour and author of Body Electric, joins the podcast to discuss how our constant use of digital technology and prolonged sitting are draining our physical energy. She explains the research linking sedentary screen time to exhaustion, and offers a simple protocol from researcher Keith Diaz: five minutes of movement every half hour. The conversation also covers the specific damage screens and earbuds cause to our eyes and ears, and the unexpected reason screen use disrupts sleep—it's not just blue light.

# · Apr 28, 2026 · 00:58:15
Jim Collins

In this conversation with researcher and author Jim Collins, he argues that life is not a linear progression but a cyclical pattern of 'fog' and 'frame.' Drawing on a decade of research and his latest book What to Make of a Life, he explains how periods of disorientation are normal and how we can navigate them by aligning our innate 'encodings' with our work. The discussion weaves in case studies from astronauts to NFL players, offering a map for finding purpose again and again.

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# · Apr 21, 2026 · 52m
Brett McKay (solo)

Building substantial personal wealth can feel difficult and out of reach. But my guest says that even those with modest means can, with a few simple decisions and strategies, become millionaires, and even multi-millionaires.

# · Apr 21, 2026 · 00:51:41
David Bach

David Bach, author of The Automatic Millionaire, joins the show to explain how anyone can build substantial wealth on a modest income. He shares the Latte Factor — how small daily expenses can add up to millions if invested — and the mechanics of compound interest, including the Rule of 72. Bach emphasizes that starting early matters more than earning a high return and that automating your savings is the single most impactful financial move you can make. The conversation also covers why homeownership remains a powerful wealth-builder and how to pay off a mortgage early while still saving for retirement.

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# · Apr 14, 2026 · 56m
Brett McKay (solo)

When people visit a therapist's office for help with their depression, they often don't find the relief they're seeking. That's because much of the counsel that is traditionally given doesn't offer the context people need to make sense of and preserve their mental well-being.

# · Apr 14, 2026 · 55m 49s
Dr. Scott Eilers

Dr. Scott Eilers, a clinical psychologist, challenges the conventional wisdom around depression and therapy. He explains why the neurotransmitter imbalance model falls short and why traditional talk therapy often fails to provide lasting relief. Drawing from his book The Light Between the Leaves, he shares a more integrated framework that includes exercise as a cornerstone, the danger of comparing yourself to others, and practical habits like removing 'invasive pleasures' and pursuing goals to build psychological resilience.

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# · Apr 7, 2026 · 50m
Brett McKay (solo)

Pooping. Everybody does it, but a lot of people are embarrassed to talk about it. That's a shame, my guest says, not only because your digestive health is incredibly linked to your overall health, but simply for the fact that there is much happiness to be found in an easy, worry-free constitutional.

# · Apr 7, 2026 · 49m 42s
Dr. Trisha Pasricha

Harvard gastroenterologist Dr. Trisha Pasricha discusses the often-ignored but vital topic of bowel movements, from what healthy stool looks like to the hidden dangers of smartphone use on the toilet. She explains the color and consistency guide for assessing digestive health, why the urge to go sometimes strikes in bookstores (the Mariko Aoki phenomenon), and the superiority of bidets. The conversation covers laxatives, a food more effective than prunes for regularity, and tips for pooping comfortably while traveling. It’s a practical, shame-free look at a universal bodily function.

# · Mar 31, 2026 · 57m
Brett McKay (solo)

Courage is one of our most prized and celebrated virtues. But once you really start exploring it, the nature of courage is surprisingly hard to pin down.

# · Mar 31, 2026 · 56m 51s
William Ian Miller

Historian William Ian Miller explores the surprisingly complex nature of courage, drawing on centuries of philosophy, military history, and personal memoirs. He examines why courage is so highly prized yet so hard to define, the fuzzy line between bravery and cowardice, and how fear, shame, and honor shape courageous acts. The conversation covers whether courage is domain-specific, the ethics of offensive versus defensive courage, and whether deeds with evil ends can still be called courageous.

# · Mar 24, 2026 · 49m
Brett McKay (solo)

We tend to think of genius as something you’re born with — a rare trait possessed by the Einsteins and Teslas of the world. But what if many of the abilities we associate with genius — a great memory, quick problem-solving, mental math, creative insight — are actually trainable skills?

# · Mar 24, 2026 · 49m 11s
Nelson Dellis

Nelson Dellis, a six-time USA Memory Champion, argues that genius is not an innate gift but a set of trainable skills. He explains why memory remains essential in the age of AI and shares his SEE, LINK, GO memory framework. The conversation covers reading with retention, developing number sense, problem-solving strategies, and even esoteric topics like intuition, dreams, and remote viewing. This episode is a practical guide to upgrading your mental toolkit.

# · Mar 17, 2026 · 47m 33s
Bill Gifford

Bill Gifford joins the Art of Manliness to discuss his new book 'Hotwired' and the science of heat exposure. He explains how extreme heat affects the body, why some people handle it better, and how heat training can boost athletic performance and heart health. The conversation also covers the Finnish Sauna Heart Study and the potential of heat as a treatment for depression.

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# · Mar 17, 2026 · 48m
Brett McKay (solo)

Cold exposure has gotten a lot of attention the past few years, with people dunking themselves in ice baths for the sake of their health and well-being.

# · Mar 10, 2026 · 52m
Brett McKay (solo)

When we fail to make desired progress in life, most of us put the blame on physical and environmental limits. But my guest says that what's really holding people back is what's in their heads.

# · Mar 10, 2026 · 51m 45s
Nir Eyal

Bestselling author Nir Eyal argues that the real barriers to personal growth aren't external but internal — our limiting beliefs about ourselves, our abilities, and what's possible. Drawing on neuroscience and psychology, he explains how beliefs direct our attention, shape our expectations, and determine our sense of agency, forming a 'Belief Triangle' that underpins motivation and behavior change. Eyal shares research on placebo effects, perception filters, and internal vs. external locus of control to show how changing our beliefs can unlock breakthroughs. He also provides practical strategies to identify and challenge self-limiting beliefs, including a 4-question technique called The Turnaround.

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# · Mar 3, 2026 · 53m
Brett McKay (solo)

When it comes to building a happy and meaningful life, most of us rely on a grab bag of strategies — habits and goals around work, relationships, and health.

# · Mar 3, 2026 · 00:53:16
Vic Strecher

Vic Strecher, a professor of public health and behavioral scientist, shares how losing his 19-year-old daughter led him to understand the transformative power of purpose. He explains how purpose organizes everyday habits and goals into a coherent life, and he details the significant impact purpose has on physical and mental health. The conversation covers practical guideposts for finding your own purpose, which kinds of aims foster the most fulfillment, and why purpose is a continuous journey rather than a destination.

# · Feb 24, 2026 · 51 minutes
Michael Easter

Michael Easter joins Brett to discuss the evolutionary and military history of carrying loads, and why rucking is perhaps the most accessible form of training for strength, stamina, and mental health. They explore how rucking can alleviate back pain, build bone density, and promote fat loss without the joint impact of running. Practical advice covers backpack vs. weighted vest, how much weight to start with, and how anyone can begin using everyday household items.

# · Feb 24, 2026 · 52m
Brett McKay (solo)

If you're looking for a way to improve your fitness, boost your mental health, and reconnect with a deeply human activity — all without going to the gym or pounding your knees on a daily run — then rucking may be the practice you've been looking for.

# · Feb 17, 2026 · 49m
Brett McKay (solo)

The awkward silence at work when everyone knows a project is going off the rails. The simmering resentment in a marriage over an issue neither spouse will confront. The dysfunction in a church where certain topics are understood to be off-limits.

# · Feb 17, 2026 · 48m 55s
Joseph Grenny

Some of the biggest problems in organizations, families, and communities aren't the problems themselves but people's inability to talk about them. Joseph Grenny, business social scientist and co-author of Crucial Conversations, explains what makes a conversation "crucial"—high stakes, strong emotions, and differing opinions—and why our brains betray us when we need them most. He shares a practical framework for handling these talks without sacrificing honesty or relationships, covering how to diagnose the real issue, create conditions for connection, and respond to criticism. The conversation offers tools for anyone who has ever avoided a tough talk at work or at home.

# · Feb 10, 2026 · 55m 35s
Bobby Jamieson

Pastor and author Bobby Jamieson joins the show to unpack the ancient wisdom of Ecclesiastes. He argues that the Bible's most philosophical book speaks directly to the modern experience of acceleration, control-seeking, and the disappointing aftermath of achievement. Jamieson explores why so much of life can feel absurd and unsatisfying, and how Ecclesiastes ultimately shows us a counterintuitive path to resilient happiness—not by solving life's vanity, but by embracing it and finding joy in the simple, fleeting gifts of daily life. Along the way, he draws connections to contemporary thought, including Hartmut Rosa's work on social acceleration.

# · Feb 10, 2026 · 56m
Brett McKay (solo)

Of all the books in the Bible, Ecclesiastes is arguably the most philosophical. Dark, experiential, existential, and unsparingly honest about the human condition, it wrestles with work, money, ambition, pleasure, time, and death — and it does so in a way that feels uncannily modern.

# · Feb 3, 2026 · 45m
Brett McKay (solo)

Not long ago, the primary concern people had about boys was that they were wild, impulsive, and out of control — getting into fights, pushing limits, and stirring up trouble. Today, the problem has flipped. The more common challenge isn’t reckless behavior, but inert passivity.

# · Feb 3, 2026 · 00:44:30
Vince Benevento

Therapist Vince Benevento discusses the modern crisis of disengaged young men—anxiety, apathy, and social isolation replacing the old stereotype of reckless boys. Drawing on nearly two decades in a male-specific counseling center, he explains why traditional talk therapy often fails young men and outlines an action-oriented alternative built around accountability, camaraderie, and purpose. He shares practical ways to help young men build a life “brick by brick” and to find their wild, their thing, and a good group of male friends.

# · Jan 27, 2026 · 00:54:06
Kate Murphy

Kate Murphy, author of Why We Click, discusses the science of interpersonal synchrony—the measurable physiological phenomenon that underlies the feeling of 'clicking' with someone. She explains how synchrony influences friendships, teamwork, and romance, and why some people are naturally more 'clickable' than others. The conversation also covers why video calls fail to produce the same chemistry and how you can improve your own ability to connect with others through attention and listening.

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# · Jan 27, 2026 · 54m
Brett McKay (solo)

We’ve all had that feeling — you meet someone new, and the conversation just flows. You’re in sync. You click. But what’s really happening when that magic occurs?

# · Jan 20, 2026 · 57m 40s
Chuck Klosterman

Chuck Klosterman, author of Football, argues that American football isn't just a sport but a national operating system woven into culture and language. He explains how it became the dominant televised spectacle despite elements that should undermine its appeal. Klosterman discusses football as a simulation of war and reality, and how video game simulations have fed back into the real game. He also shares why he thinks Tom Brady isn't the GOAT, and explores the difference between achievement and greatness. Finally, he presents a case for why football might face a steep decline.

# · Jan 20, 2026 · 58m
Brett McKay (solo)

American football is so big — so braided into our weekends, our language, and our culture — that it can be hard to see it clearly as a whole.

# · Jan 13, 2026 · 45m
Brett McKay (solo)

We usually think of money as something very practical, concrete, and secular; we earn it, save it, spend it, and crunch the numbers behind it. But money is never just about money: it reflects our values, our priorities — and even our spiritual life. My guest today, Tom Levinson, knows this well.

# · Jan 13, 2026 · 45m
Tom Levinson

Tom Levinson, a financial advisor with a background at Harvard Divinity School, joins the show to explore the spiritual side of money. He discusses how Judaism, Christianity, and Islam view wealth and financial practice, and explains why budgeting can be more than a practical tool—it can function as a spiritual discipline. The conversation reframes personal finance as a reflection of values and meaning rather than just numbers.

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# · Jan 6, 2026 · 59:16
Alex Viada

Alex Viada, a physiologist and coach who deadlifted 700 pounds and completed an ultramarathon in the same week, explains how to combine strength training with endurance sports like running or cycling. He shares methods for testing progress, managing both local and systemic fatigue, and building a fitness base that prepares you for adventure and everyday demands. The conversation covers the practical nuts and bolts of training for both modalities without sacrificing performance in either.

# · Jan 6, 2026 · 59m
Brett McKay (solo)

For decades, fitness culture has tended to break people into two categories: you’re either a strength guy or an endurance guy. You lift heavy or run far — but not both. But my guest today says you don't have to choose; you can excel at both modalities and be ready for anything.

# · Dec 30, 2025 · 00:50:50
Kyle Austin Young

Kyle Austin Young, author of Success Is a Numbers Game, argues that every goal has a hidden probability of success and that by thinking strategically instead of optimistically, you can hack those odds. He explains why most people pursue goals in flawed ways and introduces the concept of a success diagram — a visual map that reveals weak links in your plan. We also discuss how to use probability thinking to know when to quit, turning goal pursuit into a rational, improvable process.

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# · Dec 30, 2025 · 51m
Brett McKay (solo)

Most of us chase goals — starting a business, running a marathon, getting a promotion — without ever asking: What are the actual odds this will work? My guest today says those odds aren’t just graspable — they’re hackable.

# · Dec 23, 2025 · 51m
Brett McKay (solo)

Note: This is a rebroadcast. Happiness is the subject of thousands of articles, podcasts, and scientific studies. Yet all this focus on happiness doesn’t seem to be making people any happier.

# · Dec 23, 2025 · 51m 18s
Russ Harris

Therapist Russ Harris explains why chasing happiness by trying to eliminate bad feelings and hold onto good ones backfires, making people unhappier. He redefines happiness as doing good and living a meaningful life rather than feeling good, then shares the approach of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT): allowing all emotions to coexist, unhooking from unhelpful thoughts, and taking action aligned with your values.

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# · Dec 16, 2025 · 00:55:42
Joel Miller

Former publishing executive and author Joel Miller discusses his book The Idea Machine. He argues that books are not mere content containers but a revolutionary technology that reshaped human cognition and society. The conversation traces the physical history of the book, from the shift to silent reading to the invention of word spacing and the impact of the printing press. Miller also explores how novels expanded our emotional intelligence and why, despite the rise of video and AI, books still provide essential space for deep, reflective thinking.

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# · Dec 16, 2025 · 56m
Brett McKay (solo)

Books are everywhere. They're so common, they're easy to take for granted. But my guest argues that they’re worth fully appreciating — because the book isn’t just a container for content; it’s a revolutionary technology for shaping culture and thought.

# · Dec 9, 2025 · 51m
Brett McKay (solo)

Most of us know what we should do to be healthier: eat better, move more, sleep well. The real challenge? Actually following through.

# · Dec 9, 2025 · 51m 11s
Amantha Imber

Behavioral psychologist Amantha Imber explains why knowing what to do for health isn't enough, identifies four habit hijackers that derail follow-through, and offers research-backed tactics to bridge the intention-action gap. She then shares specific high-impact health habits, including sleep restriction, the surprising origin of the 10,000 steps myth, the power of a post-meal walk, and the importance of implementation intentions.

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# · Dec 2, 2025 · 50m
Brett McKay (solo)

There’s a lot of debate these days about what it means to be a man. But maybe the answer is simpler than we think, and a lot of masculinity just comes down to confident competence. A broad set of know-how. The ability to get stuff done. The capacity to move through the world with purpose and skill.

# · Dec 2, 2025 · 50m
Elliot Ackerman

Elliot Ackerman, a decorated Marine, former CIA paramilitary officer, and novelist, joins the show to discuss his column “A Man Should Know” at The Free Press. The conversation centers on how competence—practical skills that span from wearing a watch to giving a eulogy—shapes masculine identity and provides a constructive answer to the struggles of young men today. Ackerman argues that quiet confidence comes from a broad set of know-how, not posturing, and that intention and discipline can transform how a man carries himself.

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# · Nov 25, 2025 · 50m
Brett McKay (solo)

Note: This is a rebroadcast. It’s a tough job to manage a household. Things need to be regularly fixed, maintained, and cleaned. How do you stay on top of these tasks in order to keep your home in tip-top shape?

# · Nov 25, 2025 · 00:49:34
Charles MacPherson

This rebroadcast features Charles MacPherson, a former major-domo and founder of a butler school, who explains how to manage a household with military precision. He traces the history of domestic service and why butlers and maids are making a comeback. For the average person without staff, he introduces the 'butler's book' as a home instruction manual and shares his golden rules of cleaning — like always cleaning top to bottom and dry to wet. MacPherson also reveals commonly neglected spots (like the dishwasher door edge), a surprising product for shower cleaning, and his recommended bedsheet-changing frequency.

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# · Nov 18, 2025 · 00:56:13
Joseph Loconte

Joseph Loconte returns to discuss his book The War for Middle Earth, exploring how the World Wars shaped J.R.R. Tolkien and C.S. Lewis. Their experiences as veterans gave them firsthand knowledge of evil, heroism, and sacrifice, which infused works like The Lord of the Rings and The Chronicles of Narnia with moral weight. The conversation covers their friendship, the Inklings literary group, and how imaginative storytelling became a countercultural force for conveying timeless themes of resistance, friendship, and redemption.

# · Nov 18, 2025 · 56m
Brett McKay (solo)

When people think of J.R.R. Tolkien and C.S. Lewis, they often picture tweedy Oxford professors and beloved fantasy authors.

# · Nov 11, 2025 · 41m
Susan Dominus

Journalist Susan Dominus discusses her new book The Family Dynamic, exploring how siblings shape our lives as much as parents do. The conversation covers nature versus nurture, the surprising power of birth order and sibling rivalry, and why parental influence may be overrated. Dominus draws on research and family case studies to argue that the sibling relationship is a critical but overlooked factor in personal development. The episode offers a fresh lens on family dynamics that may change how you view your own upbringing.

# · Nov 11, 2025 · 42m
Brett McKay (solo)

When we think about what shaped our life trajectory, we often focus on the way our parents raised us. But what about our siblings? What role do they play in who we become? My guest today makes the case that siblings may be just as influential as parents in impacting how we turn out.

# · Nov 4, 2025 · 58m
Brett McKay (solo)

In a story from ancient Greek philosophy, Hercules faces a choice between two paths: one promising pleasure and ease; the other, hardship and struggle — but also growth and greatness. According to today’s guest, this ancient parable is more relevant than ever. Dr.

# · Nov 4, 2025 · 00:58:27
Dr. Paul Taylor

Dr. Paul Taylor, psychophysiologist and author of The Hardiness Effect, returns to explore the ancient Greek parable of Hercules choosing between a path of ease and a path of struggle. He argues that modern comfort has become a default that damages both mental and physical health, and advocates for actively choosing the path of arete — a life of effort, engagement, and challenge. The conversation covers the four traits of a psychologically hardy person, how intentional stress strengthens body and mind, and practical protocols for building hardiness today.

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# · Oct 28, 2025 · 53m
Joanna Ebenstein

Joanna Ebenstein, founder of Morbid Anatomy and author of Memento Mori, joins us to discuss why we lost a more intimate relationship with death and the life-stifling consequences of that disconnect. She shares practices for coming to terms with death and removing our fear of it, including looking at memento mori art, meditating on death, talking to the dead, and taking care of practicalities like advance directives. Ebenstein argues that making friends with death is the key to fully embracing life.

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# · Oct 28, 2025 · 53m
Brett McKay (solo)

We live in a culture that does everything it can to keep death at a distance. We hide it behind hospital curtains, euphemize it in conversation, and hustle through grief like it's just another item on the to-do list. We don't want death to get in the way of living.

# · Oct 21, 2025 · 51m
Brett McKay (solo)

If you went to high school in America, you probably read Moby-Dick — or, more likely, you skimmed the CliffsNotes and wondered why this dense, whale-obsessed novel was considered a classic. That was me in 10th grade.

# · Oct 14, 2025 · 48m
Brett McKay (solo)

There's been a lot of talk about morning routines in the last few years. But the idea is hardly new; famous men from Thomas Aquinas to Benjamin Franklin structured their mornings to accomplish great deeds and live flourishing lives.

# · Oct 7, 2025 · 1h
Brett McKay (solo)

What does it mean to be a man? It’s a timeless question that's been answered in different ways across the ages. For the ancient Romans, the word for manliness was virtus — the root of our word virtue. To be a man meant living a life of virtuous excellence.

# · Sep 30, 2025 · 53m
Brett McKay (solo)

You may have heard of hormesis — the idea that intentionally embracing small stressors activates the body’s repair and defense systems, building resilience, improving how the body and even the microbiome function, and ultimately protecting against the harms of chronic stress.

# · Sep 23, 2025 · 1h 6m
Brett McKay (solo)

Whether you’ve never stepped foot in a weight room or you’ve been lifting for years without seeing significant results, figuring out how to get big, strong, and jacked can feel overwhelming. There are endless programs, conflicting opinions, and a lot of noise about what actually works.

# · Sep 16, 2025 · 52m
Brett McKay (solo)

For generations, the path to adulthood was straightforward: go to college, get a job, build a life. But many young men are beginning to question the college component of that path; tuition keeps rising, A.I.

# · Sep 8, 2025 · 1h
Medical Testing

Modern medicine has given us incredible tools to peer inside the body and spot disease earlier than ever before. But with that power comes a problem: the more we look, the more we find — and not everything we find needs fixing. My guest today, neurologist Dr.

# · Sep 2, 2025 · 50m
Brett McKay (solo)

Most people think of anger as a problem — something to avoid or repress. It’s irrational, immature, and best left behind. But what if anger isn’t bad? What if it can actually be an incredibly positive, productive, energizing life force?

# · Aug 26, 2025 · 51m
Brett McKay (solo)

When you picture a gunfighter, you probably think of a Hollywood cowboy — spurs jangling, six-shooter on his hip, squaring off at high noon in a dusty frontier town. But gunfighters weren’t just products of Hollywood.

#1019 · Jun 5, 2024 · 52m
Ben Aldridge

Ben Aldridge on using philosophical challenges — cold exposure, fasting, silence retreats, discomfort practice — as tools for building resilience, gratitude, and self-knowledge.

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# · Nov 15, 2023 · 55m
Ryan Holiday

Ryan Holiday on his book Discipline Is Destiny — the Stoic virtue of temperance applied to modern life. Why self-discipline isn't about deprivation but about freedom from compulsion.

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#926 · Sep 21, 2023 · 58m
Jon Tyson

Jon Tyson on the five developmental shifts that boys must make to become men: from self to others, from victim to agent, from consumption to creation, from safety to risk, and from passivity to purpose.

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# · Jul 27, 2023 · 65m
Layne Norton

Norton cuts through nutrition noise with hard evidence. Supplements worth taking, plant vs. animal protein, meal timing myths, and why most nutrition advice is based on correlation studies that prove nothing.

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# · Jul 26, 2023 · 62m
Neil Howe

Neil Howe presents his theory that American history moves in 80-100 year cycles, with each cycle ending in a 'Fourth Turning' crisis (Revolutionary War, Civil War, WWII, and now...). We are in the crisis period now.

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