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The Art of Manliness · October 28, 2025 · 53m

Make Friends With Death to Live a Better Life

Joanna Ebenstein

Joanna Ebenstein, founder of Morbid Anatomy and author of Memento Mori, joins us to discuss why we lost a more intimate relationship with death and the life-stifling consequences of that disconnect. She shares practices for coming to terms with death and removing our fear of it, including looking at memento mori art, meditating on death, talking to the dead, and taking care of practicalities like advance directives. Ebenstein argues that making friends with death is the key to fully embracing life.

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Making Friends with Death to Embrace Life
Ebenstein argues that our culture's denial of death prevents us from fully living, and that befriending death is the key to embracing life.
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Highlights

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How Modern Culture Lost Intimacy with Death
Ebenstein explains how death, once a visible and communal part of life, became hidden behind hospital curtains and sanitized in conversation.
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Editorial

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Four Practices for Befriending Death
Ebenstein recommends four practices: contemplating memento mori art, meditating on death, talking to the dead, and handling the practicalities of death like advance directives.
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References

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Memento Mori: The Art of Contemplating Death to Live a Better Life — Joanna Ebenstein — mentioned by guest
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Death: A Graveside Companion — Joanna Ebenstein — mentioned in resources
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The Smell of Rain on Dust: Grief and Praise — Martín Prechtel — mentioned in resources
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Sleeping Beauty: Memorial Photography in America — Stanley B. Burns — mentioned in resources
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