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Being Well · February 9, 2026 · 1h 10m
Reducing Reactivity (Without Becoming a Doormat) with Sharon Salzberg
Sharon Salzberg, co-founder of the Insight Meditation Society, joins Rick and Forrest to explore how to work skillfully with anger and reactivity without becoming passive. Drawing on her new children’s book Kind Karl, she shares how mindfulness creates space, how to distinguish healthy moral anger from habitual reactivity, and how looking closely at what’s in the anger can bring clarity. They discuss the Buddhist link between anger and fear, the protective function of anger, and how lovingkindness and self-compassion are active forces for resilience.
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Canon
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Mindfulness creates a gap between a trigger and our habitual reaction, allowing us to choose how we respond rather than acting on impulse.
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The Protective Function of Anger00:26:48
Anger often arises as a protective response to perceived threat or vulnerability, and looking closely at 'what's in the anger' reveals underlying fear or hurt.Highlights
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References
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Kind Karl: A Little Crocodile with Big Feelings — Sharon Salzberg — new children's book about a crocodile with big feelings
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Lovingkindness — Sharon Salzberg — seminal work on lovingkindness meditation
Misc
✧Sharon quotes a fourth-grader: 'Mindfulness means not hitting someone in the mouth.'
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