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The Science of Happiness · August 13, 2026 · 15:08

Where To Look For Joy

Poet Ross Gay and psychologist Philip Watkins explore how joy can be cultivated through connection, attention, and gratitude. Gay emphasizes the importance of spending time with others without an agenda and noticing small moments of connection in daily life. Watkins explains how sharing delight and reflecting with gratitude can amplify positive experiences. The episode offers concrete practices: notice connection, make time to be together, pay attention to small moments, share your joy, savor what feels good, and reflect with gratitude. It frames joy as a practice rather than a passive mood.

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Canon

The practice includes telling someone about something that delights you or helping someone else carry their joy.

Highlights

Joy Is a Practice, Not Just a Feeling
Ross Gay and Philip Watkins frame joy as something people can cultivate through repeated practices of attention, connection, and gratitude.
Noticing Connection Is the Starting Point for Joy
The first practice is to pay attention to the people, places, animals, and natural world that create a feeling of connection.
Unstructured Time Together Creates Space for Joy
Ross Gay encourages making opportunities to hang out and share experiences with others without an agenda.
Gratitude Reflection Deepens Joy
Philip Watkins explains that reflecting on a joyful experience and what it meant can amplify feelings of joy and gratitude.

Misc

The episode pairs an award-winning poet with a psychology professor who studies gratitude, happiness, and joy.
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