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The School of Greatness · August 3, 2026 · 1h 13m

The Trauma That Hurts People Most (And Never Gets Named) | Patrick Teahan

Clinical social worker and childhood trauma educator Patrick Teahan joins Lewis Howes to share a three-part framework for healing from childhood trauma: finishing business with the family of origin, re-parenting the inner child, and intimacy work. They discuss the landmark ACE study, the exhausting reality of hypervigilance, the roots of imposter syndrome, and when to go no contact with toxic family members. Teahan also introduces his psychology-journal-published 'Toxic Family Test,' a tool for identifying dysfunctional family patterns.

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Canon

Teahan explains how the Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE) study revealed the long-term health consequences of early adversity, showing that traumatic childhoods directly increase risk for chronic disease, mental illness, and social dysfunction.

Novel

Teahan’s Three-Part Healing Framework
Teahan outlines a three-step process for healing from childhood trauma: finishing business with the family of origin, re-parenting the inner child, and intimacy work.
The Toxic Family Test
Teahan developed a psychology-journal-published assessment, the Toxic Family Test, to help individuals identify dysfunctional family-of-origin patterns.

Highlights

Hypervigilance as a Core Symptom of Childhood Trauma
Teahan describes hypervigilance—the state of constantly scanning for threat—as one of the most exhausting and misunderstood consequences of a traumatic upbringing.

Editorial

When Going No Contact Is the Right Boundary
Teahan discusses the difficult decision to go 'no contact' with toxic family members and when it can be an act of self-preservation rather than abandonment.
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