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Optimal Living Daily · September 27, 2026 · 10m

4170: Wise People Have Rules For Themselves by David Cain on Discipline

David Cain challenges the common advice to stop being so hard on yourself. He argues that people who excel in money, health, or work almost all hold themselves to clear personal rules, and that these rules remove countless small negotiations rather than reducing freedom. A personal standard is a good decision made in advance, and the real constraint is having no standards at all.

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Why 'Stop Being So Hard on Yourself' Is Bad Advice
David Cain argues that the common advice to ease up on self-criticism often backfires, as those who excel in life maintain strict personal standards.
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Personal Rules Are a Shortcut to Better Decisions
Setting clear personal standards is like making a good decision in advance, removing the need for countless daily choices.

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