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The One You Feed · June 23, 2026 · 56m

Why All-or-Nothing Thinking Keeps You From Exercising | Michelle Segar

Michelle Segar explores why all-or-nothing thinking often keeps people from exercising, and why the problem is usually not a lack of motivation or willpower. She explains how rigid standards, perfectionism, and the belief that workouts only count if done a certain way lead many to avoid movement altogether. Segar introduces the concept of “choice points”—the everyday moments when exercise is decided—and describes strategies for building flexibility and behavioral resilience. The conversation also covers why enjoyment is a stronger driver of long-term adherence than obligation, and how a varied “movement menu” can help sustain a more forgiving, consistent practice.

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Canon

Michelle Segar explains how the belief that exercise only counts if done a certain way leads many people to do nothing at all.

Highlights

Choice Points Are the Moments Exercise Is Decided
Segar describes “choice points”—the everyday moments when you decide to exercise or skip it—as the key leverage points for building consistency.
Enjoyment Is Crucial for Exercise Adherence
Research shows that people who exercise for enjoyment rather than obligation are far more likely to stick with it.

Editorial

A Movement Menu Encourages Flexible Activity
Instead of a fixed workout plan, Segar recommends a “movement menu” of varied physical activities you enjoy.
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