Life Kit · September 8, 2026 · 21m

Want more intimacy in your relationships? Conflict could help

Priya Parker

Conflict is necessary for close, authentic relationships, says conflict resolution facilitator Priya Parker, author of *The Art of Fighting*. In this episode, she shares practical questions to ask yourself before raising an issue, explains how to navigate different conflict styles, and makes the case for scheduling time to fight. The episode offers concrete strategies for turning conflict into a tool for deeper intimacy.

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Highlights

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Conflict is necessary for authentic intimacy

Conflict is not a sign of a broken relationship; it's a necessary ingredient for closeness and authenticity.

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Questions to ask yourself before engaging

Parker recommends a set of self-reflective questions to determine whether an issue is worth raising and how to approach it.

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Different conflict styles and how to handle them

People have different default ways of handling conflict, and recognizing these styles can prevent escalation.

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Schedule time to fight

Parker suggests intentionally setting aside time to discuss difficult topics rather than letting conflicts arise spontaneously.

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References

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The Art of Fighting — Priya Parker — New book on conflict resolution

Misc

✧Priya Parker suggests scheduling time to argue as a way to handle conflict constructively.

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