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The Happiness Lab · October 19, 2026 · 52m

Why Happiness Experts Still Struggle to Be Happy with Dr. Ethan Kross

Dr. Laurie Santos and psychologist Ethan Kross have a live conversation at SXSW about the gap between knowing what makes us happier and actually doing it. Even happiness experts don't always follow their own advice—they get stuck in rumination, struggle to form habits, and fail to apply emotional tools when they need them most. They explore psychological biases that create this knowing-doing gap and present science-backed strategies for managing difficult emotions, building better habits, and turning insight into action.

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The Knowing-Doing Gap
Laurie Santos and Ethan Kross discuss the illusion that simply knowing what to do is enough—in reality, there's a wide chasm between understanding a well-being strategy and consistently putting it into practice.
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Solomon's Paradox (Self-Distancing)
Ethan Kross shares his research on Solomon's Paradox: people are much wiser when reasoning about others' problems than their own, but adopting a self-distanced perspective can close that gap.

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