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Good Life Project · August 31, 2026 · 1h 0m

How to Make Better Decisions | Shane Parrish [Best of]

Shane Parrish
Show Notes

Shane Parrish, former Canadian intelligence officer and founder of Farnam Street, explains why great decisions aren't made in the moment — they're determined by the position you're in before you decide. Drawing on his book Clear Thinking, he breaks down the four hidden defaults that hijack your thinking, shares the three-word phrase he uses to defuse arguments with his kids, and offers practical techniques for identifying blind spots in any decision.

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Curious

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The four hidden defaults
Before you even notice, four default patterns hijack your thinking: the emotion default, the ego default, the social default, and the inertia default.
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Highlights

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Position over decision quality
The quality of a decision is less important than the position you're in before you make it — and Warren Buffett structures his life so he almost never faces bad ones.
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Three-word defusing phrase
Shane uses a simple three-word phrase with his kids to defuse arguments before they escalate.
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Doing your best doesn't happen in the hour it counts
The outcome of a high-stakes moment is almost never determined by trying harder in that moment — it's determined by what you did in the hours before.
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The night-before, morning-after blind spot check
A simple two-step technique for surfacing blind spots in any decision: review it the night before and again the morning after.
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References

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Clear Thinking: Turning Ordinary Moments into Extraordinary Results — Shane Parrish — Core framework discussed throughout the episode

Misc

✧Shane spent years in Canadian intelligence making real-time decisions where the stakes were other people's lives
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