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Feel Better, Live More · June 30, 2026 · 2h 15m

How To Live An Intentional Life with Professor C Thi Nguyen #670

C Thi Nguyen, Associate Professor of Philosophy at the University of Utah, explores how modern culture has become obsessed with measuring success through external metrics—followers, likes, salaries, grades—often replacing our authentic values with simplified proxies. This conversation unpacks 'value capture,' the process by which rich personal values get crowded out by measurable metrics, and examines why joy, love, relationships, and other unmeasurables are systematically undervalued. Nguyen argues that play, hobbies, and games offer profound lessons about freedom and meaning, and discusses the tension between operating by principles versus algorithmic rules.

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Curious

Value Capture: Metrics Replace Authentic Values
Modern life systematically replaces rich, personal values with simplified external metrics—followers, likes, salaries, grades, weight, blood pressure—that can never capture the full picture of a human life but often end up running it.

Novel

Play, Games, and Hobbies Teach Freedom and Resistance to Value Capture
Games, sports, board games, and hobbies are not trivial diversions but profound laboratories for freedom and intentional living—they show us what it's like to choose our own metrics and operate within self-defined constraints.
Principles vs. Algorithmic Rules: A Distinction That Changes How You Live
Operating by principles (flexible, contextual, requiring judgment) differs fundamentally from operating by algorithmic rules (rigid, uniform, executable without thinking), and this distinction reshapes how we approach health, relationships, and life.

Highlights

Modern institutions systematically honor what can be quantified and dismiss what resists measurement, creating a structural bias toward metrics over meaning that shapes everything from education to healthcare to personal identity.

Editorial

Unmeasurables—Joy, Love, Relationships—Are Systematically Undervalued
The substance of a life well lived—joy, love, forgiveness, quality relationships—resists being measured and is therefore culturally dismissed as less important, not because it is unimportant but because it's hard to count.

References

The Score: How to Stop Playing Someone Else's GameC Thi Nguyen (2024)Framework for understanding value capture and living intentionally

Misc

Nguyen is a philosopher, not a self-help guru—his framing is rigorous and conceptual rather than prescriptive
The conversation hinges on a paradox: metrics are useful but dangerous when they replace rather than serve values
Play and hobbies are presented as resistance to value capture, not as productivity hacks
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