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The Daily Stoic · December 16, 2024 · 50m

The Stoic Art of Emotional Regulation (and Raising Great Kids)

Dr. Becky Kennedy on emotional regulation through a Stoic lens. Her Good Inside framework: children aren't 'bad' — they're good inside, struggling with big feelings they haven't learned to regulate. The same is true of adults.

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Canon

Kennedy: the goal of parenting is to help children regulate emotions WITHOUT requiring them to suppress their true self. 'Good Inside' is Winnicott's true self reframed for parents.

Highlights

Emotional regulation is a skill, not a personality trait
Kennedy: people think some kids (and adults) are 'naturally calm' and others are 'naturally emotional.' Wrong. Emotional regulation is a learned skill — and it's never too late to learn it.
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