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Being Well · September 28, 2026 · 1h 11m

Treating Shame with Self-Compassion with Dr. Chris Germer

Dr. Chris Germer joins Forrest to explore why shame is so challenging and how self-compassion can transform it. They discuss what shame is, why it hides, and the predictable arc of healing. Germer reframes shame as an innocent emotion and introduces the concept of 'backdraft'—the emotional resistance that arises when we start being kind to ourselves. Practical tools like the 'shrug' and understanding the difference between healthy and toxic shame offer a compassionate path forward.

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What shame is and why it hides00:02:52
Germer explains that shame often masquerades as other emotions, making it hard to recognize because it carries a sense of unworthiness.
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Self-compassion transforms the harsh inner critic into a kind, supportive ally by teaching us to meet pain with warmth and understanding.

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