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Being Well · October 26, 2026 · 1h 14m

How to Break Relationship Patterns: Resolving Conflict and Communicating Your Needs

Dr. Rick Hanson and Forrest Hanson explore how relationships get stuck in predictable conflict patterns. Drawing on Rick's decades of work with couples and families, they cover getting on the same team, making clear requests, healthy boundaries, differentiation, and the pursuer-distancer dynamic. The episode closes with Forrest and his fiancée, associate therapist Elizabeth Ferreira, discussing fixing versus feeling and how they worked through it in their own relationship.

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Getting on the Same Team01:30
Rick shares what he wishes couples did differently when conflict gets stuck: getting on the same team instead of treating each other as the problem.
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How to Ask for What You Want09:22
Rick and Forrest discuss making clear, direct requests instead of expecting a partner to read your mind.

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