Clinical Psychologist, Author

Dr. Ramani Durvasula

Clinical psychologist specializing in narcissistic personality disorder, toxic relationships, and family estrangement. Author of multiple books on recognizing and recovering from unhealthy relationships. Known for her direct, evidence-based approach to relationship assessment.

Known For

Expertise in narcissistic personality disorderFamily estrangement and boundary-settingToxic relationship recoveryReframing guilt in the context of self-protection

Canon

Adverse Childhood Experiences Wire Nervous System Dysregulation Into Adulthood

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Self-Sabotage Is a Protective Mechanism Rooted in Survival Learning

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Books

■Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Relationship With a Narcissist(2021)

■It's Not You(2016)

Episodes

#Dr. Ramani: If You're Thinking About Going No Contact With a Family Member - Listen to THISJun 15, 2026