We Can Do Hard Things · July 23, 2026 · 1h 2m

(BEST OF) Samantha Irby's Survival Guide for Ridiculous Times

Samantha Irby, writer and author of MEATY and WE ARE NEVER MEETING IN REAL LIFE, joins the show to discuss how humor becomes a survival mechanism during absurd times. She shares her philosophy of getting through life in five-minute increments, why laughter often masks deeper emotion, and practical strategies for navigating friendships and chaos with wisdom and wit.

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Curious

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JOMO (Joy of Missing Out)

Happiness may come less from experiences and more from the freedom of not feeling obligated to experience everything.

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Novel

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Lowercase-f Friend Theory

Redefine friendship categories: a 'lowercase-f friend' is someone you enjoy without expectation of lifelong closeness or deep intimacy.

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Highlights

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Humor Hides Deeper Emotion

Funny observations often mask or reflect real pain, vulnerability, or unprocessed emotion underneath.

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Editorial

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Laughter as Survival Mechanism

Humor becomes a way to survive and navigate absurd times when hope feels distant.

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Five-Minute Increment Philosophy

Break difficult periods into five-minute chunks instead of trying to envision getting through an entire day or week.

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References

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MEATY — Samantha Irby — Irby's memoir

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WE ARE NEVER MEETING IN REAL LIFE — Samantha Irby — Essay collection about navigating human relationships

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WOW, NO THANK YOU — Samantha Irby — Irby's writing

Misc

✧Irby has written for And Just Like That, Work in Progress, Shrill, and Tuca & Bertie

✧Runs the 'Bitches Gotta Eat' blog

✧Episode labeled as 'BEST OF' — likely a rebroadcast

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