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We Can Do Hard Things · October 8, 2026 · 1h 0m

(BEST OF) How to Really Believe Your Body is Good: Carson Tueller

Carson Tueller shares how a paralyzing accident at 23 forced him to confront the stories his culture taught him about bodies and worth. He explains that much of his suffering came not from his physical condition but from societal ableism, which ranks some bodies as “good” and others as broken. Carson describes how disability led him to deeper intimacy and the best sex of his life, and offers a framework for ceasing to postpone living until your body changes. The conversation challenges the belief that your body must meet certain standards to be acceptable and emphasizes that your deepest Self never sees you as broken.

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A Sister's Question Reframes Life
Carson recounts that a simple question from his sister after his accident upended the story he had been telling himself about his body and future.
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Your Deepest Self Never Says You're Broken
Carson claims that the innermost voice we carry does not condemn our bodies; the messages of brokenness come from external, learned narratives.

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