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We Can Do Hard Things · August 1, 2023 · 60m
Elizabeth Gilbert on Love, Loss, and Starting Again
Elizabeth Gilbert opens up about the loss of her partner Rayya Elias to cancer, how grief transformed her understanding of love, and how she found the courage to live and create again.
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Gilbert frames the choice to love again as the ultimate courage test: knowing that love leads to loss (everyone dies), choosing to love anyway requires the courage to accept that the pain of loss is the price of the joy of connection.
Highlights
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Grief is not something you get over — it is something you integrate. The loss becomes part of who you are, not something you leave behind
Gilbert challenges the stages of grief model: grief is not a process with an endpoint. It is an experience you integrate — the loss becomes woven into your identity, permanently present but gradually less consuming.Was this useful?