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Think Fast, Talk Smart · August 27, 2026 · 14m

318. Quick Thinks: Network Smarter and Make Better Connections

Vanessa Van Edwards

Vanessa Van Edwards joins Matt Abrahams to share research-backed strategies for better networking and communication. She explains how nonverbal cues like visible palms, eye contact, and positioning can signal warmth before you speak. Van Edwards offers a practical "conversational feed" system to replace dull small talk with surprising personal stories, and she breaks down charisma as the interplay of projecting both warmth and competence.

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Nonverbal Cues Signal Warmth Before You Speak
Vanessa Van Edwards explains that visible palms, eye contact, and positioning signal warmth and openness before you say a word, shaping how others experience the interaction from the start.
Spark Curiosity to Make Conversations Memorable
Moving beyond routine small talk by sharing surprising stories, asking engaging questions, and showing genuine enthusiasm can spark curiosity and make interactions more memorable.

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