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The Science of Happiness · June 17, 2024 · 28m

Are You Remembering the Good Times?

Palestinian-American poet Naomi Shihab Nye tries a savoring practice — deliberately recalling and reliving positive memories — and discusses how intentional remembering can counteract the negativity bias of human memory.

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Nye frames poetry as a savoring technology: a well-crafted poem captures a moment so precisely that reading it re-creates the original emotional experience. Poetry turns fleeting moments into permanently accessible emotional resources.

Highlights

Human memory has a negativity bias — we remember traumatic events more vividly than positive ones. Deliberate savoring of positive memories is a corrective practice that rebalances the emotional ledger
Keltner presents the research: negative memories are encoded more strongly than positive ones (an evolutionary adaptation for survival). Without deliberate intervention, our memory becomes a highlight reel of threats and failures. Savoring — deliberately recalling and reliving positive experiences — corrects this bias.
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