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Optimal Living Daily · September 20, 2026 · 10m

4162: What to Do When You Don't Feel like Yourself Anymore by Lisa Avellan with No Sidebar on Personal Growth

Lisa Avellan shares how feeling no longer like yourself can be a signal that your life has been designed for safety rather than authenticity. She confesses to burying her dream of writing for twelve years beneath a busy schedule and unnecessary spending, and describes how simplifying her life—removing excess commitments, spending, and unrealistic expectations—created the space to rediscover that passion. Drawing from her experience, she outlines five steps for personal growth that begin with subtraction rather than adding yet another pursuit.

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Feeling Unrecognizable Is a Sign of a Life Built Safe, Not True
Lisa Avellan explains that the discomfiting sense of not recognizing yourself is often a signal that you've constructed a life designed to keep you safe rather than one aligned with your authentic desires.
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Burying Dreams Under Excuses and Distractions
She admits she hid her writing dream for twelve years by keeping herself constantly busy and over-committed, using a packed schedule as a shield against the risk of failure.

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