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Optimal Living Daily · May 21, 2026 · 10m

4022: Hack Your Nervous System to Prevent Summer Blues by Ingrid Y Helander on Nervous System Regulation

Ingrid Y. Helander examines how the fear of depression becoming overwhelming during summer can paradoxically increase anxiety and emotional numbness. She applies Polyvagal Theory and Internal Family Systems to explain why pushing away feelings backfires and how to use nervous system regulation to shift toward safety. The episode offers practical strategies like using fear’s energy, noticing nervous system states, and approaching inner protectors with compassion. The guidance is aimed at moving through difficult emotions with more confidence and self-compassion.

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Canon

Polyvagal Theory maps three nervous system states that underlie emotional experiences and offers practical ways to shift from fight/flight or shutdown into social engagement.
Internal Family Systems (IFS) helps you relate to anxious or depressive parts of yourself from a place of curiosity and compassion.

Highlights

Fear of depression leads to emotional shutdown
Fear of returning depression can quietly intensify anxiety and emotional shutdown, especially during the summer when sadness feels harder to hide.
Any energy can move you out of depressive symptoms
Any energy, even fear, can be a great way to move out of symptoms that feel depressing.
Pushing away feelings increases depression risk
When you get overly anxious about becoming depressed and push those old feelings away, you are actually more likely to fall back into a depression.
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