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The One You Feed · May 5, 2026 · 1h 5m

Practical Techniques to Manage Anxiety, Improve Listening, and Speak Clearly When It Matters Most with Matt Abrahams

Matt Abrahams

Matt Abrahams, author of Think Faster, Talk Smarter, shares techniques to handle anxiety, improve listening, and speak clearly under pressure. He introduces the ABC framework (Affective, Behavioral, Cognitive) and the 'What, So What, Now What' response structure. Abrahams emphasizes embracing imperfection, explaining the 'why' behind messages, and using curiosity to improve conversations. The episode provides actionable tools to become a more confident and effective spontaneous communicator.

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Highlights

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ABC Framework for Communication Anxiety
Matt Abrahams introduces the ABC framework: Affective (manage physical symptoms), Behavioral (adjust what you do), Cognitive (reframe thoughts) to tackle anxiety in spontaneous communication.
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"What, So What, Now What" Response Structure
Abrahams recommends the 'What, So What, Now What' structure to organize spontaneous responses: state the fact, explain its relevance, then offer the next step.
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Embrace Imperfection in Spontaneous Speaking
Abrahams advocates aiming for 'good enough' in spontaneous speaking rather than perfection, which reduces anxiety and makes communication more authentic.
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References

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Think Faster, Talk Smarter: How to Speak Successfully When You're Put on the Spot — Matt Abrahams (2023) — Guest's book on spontaneous communication
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