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The One You Feed · July 14, 2026 · 1h 6m

How Rituals Help Us Find Meaning in Times of Change | Bruce Feiler

Bruce Feiler explores why rituals have been essential to human life for thousands of years and why they're more important than ever in today's rapidly changing world. Drawing from his new book A Time to Gather, he explains how meaningful rituals can help us navigate grief, celebrate milestones, strengthen relationships, and create a greater sense of connection during life's biggest transitions. Along with host Eric Zimmer, he shares personal stories of loss and the healing power of gathering with intention.

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Novel

Five essential life rituals for nonlinear lives
Feiler outlines five essential life rituals designed for today's nonlinear lives, which address key transitions and ongoing needs.
The 'group keeper' as peacemaker
The 'group keeper' is a surprising role within any gathering—a person who naturally mediates and maintains harmony, often without being asked.
A simple framework for creating meaningful rituals
Feiler offers a simple framework for creating meaningful rituals of your own, which helps translate intention into practice.

Highlights

Why humans instinctively create rituals during change
Bruce Feiler explains that humans instinctively create rituals during times of change because rituals provide structure and meaning amidst uncertainty.
Personalized rituals replacing traditional ceremonies
Personalized rituals are increasingly replacing traditional ceremonies as people seek more meaningful, individualized ways to mark life events.
How rituals help process grief and strengthen relationships
Rituals help us process grief by providing a shared, intentional space to mourn and remember, and they strengthen relationships by fostering togetherness and communication.

References

A Time to GatherBruce Feiler (2026)The episode draws from Feiler's new book on rituals.
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