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On Purpose with Jay Shetty · November 4, 2026 · 36m

Ask Jay: How Can I Stop Trying to Prove Myself to Others?

Jay Shetty takes four listener calls in this solo episode, offering advice on conflict, relationships, and self-worth. He explains why understanding an argument is more important than simply ending it, and provides strategies for overcoming stigma and imposter syndrome. Jay also addresses what to do when your hard work goes unnoticed, how to stay open to love while protecting your peace, and ways to stop carrying unresolved conflict. His guidance centers on curiosity, internal validation, and honest communication.

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Curiosity Over Ending Conflict00:00:25
Jay Shetty explains that resolving an argument isn't the same as understanding it, and encourages approaching conflict with curiosity rather than rushing to end it.
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Overcoming Stigma and Imposter Syndrome00:10:48
Jay discusses how an old stigma or label can fuel imposter syndrome and the constant need to prove yourself, offering advice on detaching self-worth from others' opinions.

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