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Angela Duckworth and Mike Maughan explore the paradox of perfectionism: the drive for excellence that improves performance at moderate levels becomes self-destructive at extreme levels. Duckworth distinguishes between adaptive perfectionism (high standards with flexibility) and maladaptive perfectionism (rigid standards with self-punishment).
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Canon
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Duckworth extends her grit framework: grit (passion plus perseverance) is necessary for long-term achievement, but grit without self-compassion degrades into joyless grinding. The highest performers combine relentless effort with the ability to be kind to themselves during setbacks.
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Perfectionism exists on a spectrum from adaptive (high standards + self-compassion) to maladaptive (impossible standards + self-punishment) -- the difference is not the standard but the response to falling short
Duckworth presents research distinguishing two forms of perfectionism: adaptive perfectionists set high standards but respond to failure with self-compassion and course correction. Maladaptive perfectionists set impossible standards and respond to failure with self-punishment and paralysis. The standard may be identical -- the response to falling short is what determines whether perfectionism helps or harms.Was this useful?