Why You’re Obsessed, Anxious, & Still Single - Mercedes Coffman

Mercedes Coffman examines the modern dating landscape and argues that a culture of avoidance makes it harder for people ready for real connection. She discusses why emotional availability can feel like a liability, the role of self-sabotage and trauma, and practical ways to build emotional capacity and discernment. The conversation covers the distorting influence of rom-coms, the appeal of romantic chaos, and steps toward self-acceptance as a prerequisite for healthy relationships.