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The Mel Robbins Podcast · July 16, 2026 · 01:08:20

How to Increase Your Emotional Intelligence & Never Get Angry or Bothered by Anyone

Dr. Marc Brackett from the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence joins Mel Robbins to share his research-backed framework for increasing emotional intelligence. He explains that success in career, relationships, and personal life is largely determined by how we handle emotions, yet most people were never taught this skill. Brackett outlines five steps to recognize and regulate feelings, stop negative thoughts, and redirect emotional energy. The conversation covers why we suppress emotions, how to stop taking things personally, and how emotional intelligence improves health and relationships. The core message: emotional intelligence can be learned at any age.

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Highlights

Emotional intelligence determines life success more than IQ or talent
Dr. Brackett’s research shows that how we deal with emotions largely determines our success in career, friendships, love, and family.
A five-step framework for mastering emotions
Brackett presents a research-backed, five-step process to build emotional intelligence.
Why suppressing emotions backfires
The episode explains why suppressing emotions is a common but harmful strategy, and what to do instead.
How to stop taking everything so personally
Brackett offers strategies to reduce personalizing the actions and words of others.
Emotional intelligence improves health and relationships
The episode highlights how developing EQ reduces anger, combats negativity, and strengthens connections.
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