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Life Kit · July 23, 2026 · 22m

What to do when you're too upset to think straight

Clinical psychologist Shireen Rizvi shares distress tolerance skills from dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) in this episode. She draws from the recent book she co-authored, 'Real Skills for Real Life,' to offer practical tools like dunking your head in a bowl of ice water or imagining yourself in a calm setting. These quick physical and mental exercises are designed to calm intense emotions so you can think clearly, problem-solve, and care for yourself during life's painful moments.

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Highlights

Rizvi recommends dunking your head in a bowl of ice water to calm intense emotions.
Imagining yourself in a calm setting is a mental exercise Rizvi shares for distress tolerance.
Caring for yourself through distress
Rizvi emphasizes that these practical skills are about caring for yourself so you can problem-solve and get through painful moments.

References

Real Skills for Real LifeShireen RizviThe book the episode draws from, co-authored by Rizvi
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