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The Jordan B. Peterson Podcast · September 21, 2026 · 1h 46m

Why Listening Beats Every Argument

Jordan Peterson delivers a lecture posing three intertwined questions: what is a man, what is a woman, and what is the highest thing a person can aim at. He explores these through Tolstoy's suicidal despair despite having everything, a dying man's dream of a golden rope, and a treacherous brother who transformed into the founder of a nation. The lecture builds to a practical resolution when his wife Tammy unexpectedly takes the stage to share how she won back an estranged sister through one simple act — listening — turning the evening into an instruction manual for restoring lost relationships.

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Tammy Peterson tells the true story of how she repaired a broken relationship with her sister simply by listening instead of arguing.
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Peterson uses Tolstoy's life to illustrate that even a person who has everything — fame, genius, wealth, family — can lose the will to live when meaning evaporates.

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