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Hidden Brain · August 31, 2026 · 00:50:02

The Things We Don't Say

Psychologist Steven Pinker joins Hidden Brain to explore the hidden logic of indirect speech. Pinker explains why humans so often avoid saying exactly what they mean, revealing how veiled language, politeness, and plausible deniability serve crucial social functions. The conversation examines how indirectness helps us navigate relationships, manage status, and cooperate without confrontation.

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Indirect Speech as a Social Tool
Steven Pinker explains that indirect speech — hedging, softening words, leaving things unsaid — is a fundamental part of human relationships, not a failure of honesty.
Plausible Deniability and Relationship Maintenance
Veiled language creates plausible deniability, which Pinker describes as essential for managing status and navigating delicate social situations.

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