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The Happiness Lab · June 1, 2026 · 34m

How to Feel Happier in Your Body with Jessamyn Stanley

Dr. Laurie Santos explores how body shame and self-criticism undermine our relationship with exercise, and how to reclaim movement as an act of self-compassion rather than punishment. Jessamyn Stanley, author of Every Body Yoga, discusses reframing exercise from obligation to joy—a shift that fundamentally changes how we experience our bodies and move through the world.

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Curious

Yoga as Accessibility & Inclusivity Across Body Types
Yoga, often marketed as an elite or aesthetic practice, can be reclaimed as accessible movement for all bodies when shame and judgment are removed.

Highlights

Exercise as Punishment vs. Self-Compassion
The shame-based fitness narrative—'earn it,' 'burn it,' 'punish yourself'—fundamentally undermines joy and long-term adherence to movement.

Editorial

Body Shame as Invisible Barrier to Movement
Many people avoid exercise not because they're unmotivated but because body shame makes them feel unsafe, unworthy, or uncomfortable in their own skin.
Joy in Movement as the Real Metric
The experience of pleasure and joy during movement is the actual predictor of long-term habit formation, not calories burned or aesthetic outcomes.
Cultural Body Shame Intensifies Seasonally
Summer brings a spike in messaging about bodies not being 'beach-ready,' triggering shame and restrictive behaviors rather than self-care.

References

Every Body Yoga: Let Go of Fear, Get On the Mat, Love Your BodyJessamyn StanleyStanley's foundational work on body-positive movement and yoga accessibility

Misc

The episode reframes exercise as self-compassion rather than punishment—a counterintuitive shift that changes everything about adherence and joy
Body shame as a barrier to movement is often invisible but pervasive, especially at the start of summer when cultural messaging intensifies
The conversation challenges the shame-based fitness industry messaging that dominates wellness spaces
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