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Feel Better, Live More · September 10, 2026 · 22m

BITESIZE | A Monk's Guide To Finding Happiness & Thriving in Hard Times | Gelong Thubten #678

In this Bitesize episode, Buddhist monk and meditation teacher Gelong Thubten draws on his own journey from actor burnout to monastic life. Thubten explains why distraction and addiction are closely linked, because both push away emotional pain and discomfort. The real problem, he argues, is not the emotion itself but the resistance to it — the discomfort is really in the pushing. Learning to sit with what makes us uncomfortable, rather than numbing or scrolling through it, allows those emotions to transform. The conversation opens with Thubten's framing that learning to be with yourself is the most courageous and compassionate thing you can do.

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Curious

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Thubten says the discomfort we fear is not in the emotion itself but in the pushing against it; when we sit with what makes us uncomfortable, those emotions start to transform.

Highlights

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The Most Courageous Thing Is Learning to Be with Yourself
Thubten opens with the idea that the most courageous and compassionate thing you could do in life is learn how to be with yourself.
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Distraction and Addiction Are Closely Linked
Thubten explains that distraction and addiction are two closely linked states: scrolling, overeating, or drinking push away emotional pain or discomfort, often without us realising.

Editorial

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From Acting Burnout to Monkhood
Thubten shares that he became a monk in 1993 after severe physical and mental burnout while pursuing his dream of becoming an actor in New York City.

References

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A Handbook for Hard Times: A Monk's Guide to Fearless Living — Gelong Thubten — The book discussed in the episode — a monk's guide to fearless living.

Misc

✧Thubten became a monk in 1993 after suffering severe physical and mental burnout while following his dream of becoming an actor in New York City.
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