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EconTalk · July 22, 2024 · 65m
Does Parenting Make You a Better Person?
Erik Hoel on how parenting transforms moral character. Having children forces confrontation with selfishness, patience, and unconditional love. The experience of being responsible for a helpless person changes who you are.
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Hoel: parenting is meaning-from-responsibility at its most intense. The responsibility is total (the child depends on you for everything), involuntary (you can't un-have children), and transformative (it changes who you are).
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Hoel: the research on parenting and happiness is complicated — parents aren't always happier in the moment. But long-term life satisfaction (meaning, purpose, fulfillment) is strongly predicted by the quality of parent-child relationships.
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