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Alex Cooper continues her series on attachment styles with a deep dive into avoidant attachment. She explains the discomfort of closeness, the instinct to shut down, and the phenomenon of getting the “ick” when things get serious. She offers guidance on recognizing when fear drives your feelings, how to tell if a relationship supports your healing, and strategies for communicating instead of withdrawing.
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Avoidant attachment leads to sudden discomfort and the 'ick' when a relationship gets serious, which is actually a fear-driven deactivation strategy.
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