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Being Well · January 5, 2026 · 1h 7m

Who You’ll Be This Year: Values, Goals, and a Different Kind of Resolution

In this New Year’s episode, Dr. Rick and Forrest make the case that most resolutions fail because they focus on outcomes and behaviors rather than key values. They explore how to identify important values, embrace caring about them, and let them change behavior. Forrest talks about differentiating authentic values from “conditions of worth,” and Dr. Rick shares ways to get more in touch with what matters. Topics include translating “shoulds” into values, experiencing more autonomy and agency, creating personal narratives, and finding your stance toward the year.

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Curious

They explore how a threat-oriented mindset narrows focus and limits possibilities, while an opportunity-oriented mindset opens up new behaviors.
Translating 'Shoulds' into Authentic Values00:20:18
Forrest talks about differentiating authentic values from 'conditions of worth'—external expectations that become internalized obligations.

Highlights

Why Most Resolutions Fail: Outcomes vs. Values00:00:00
Resolutions fail when they target outcomes and behaviors without addressing the underlying values that make change meaningful.
Three Levels of Action: Having, Doing, Being00:07:22
The hosts describe three ways of living: from a state of having, doing, or being, with being as the most values-aligned level.
Emulating Admired People to Clarify Values00:33:30
The hosts recommend reflecting on the people you admire most to identify the qualities and values you want to embody.
Creating a Personal Narrative and a 'Stance Toward the Year'00:41:55
They encourage framing the year ahead not as a list of goals but as a personal story and a chosen stance—a guiding orientation.
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