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Being Well · July 27, 2026 · 1h 28m
The Grieving Body: How to Heal After Loss with Dr. Mary-Frances O'Connor
Forrest Hanson and Dr. Mary-Frances O'Connor explore the physiological toll of grief. They discuss how the brain creates maps of loved ones' presence and how loss disrupts that internal prediction, leading to physical symptoms. Dr. O'Connor explains the health risks of bereavement, the concept of prolonged grief disorder, and practical tools for taking care of the healing body. The conversation covers how attachment relationships function as external regulators for our nervous system and what happens when they disappear. Throughout, they emphasize that grieving is a biological process we must understand to support ourselves and others through.
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The Map That No Longer Exists00:04:42
Our brains create neural maps of loved ones' presence, and when they die, these maps no longer match reality, causing ongoing surprise and dysregulation.•
Physiological Effects of Grief00:16:35
Grief increases risk for heart problems, immune dysfunction, and even mortality, driven by the stress of loss.•
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Re-Engaging With the World01:03:00
Grieving involves gradually rebuilding a life that integrates the loss, not moving on from it.Curious
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Loved ones serve as external regulators of our heart rate, breathing, and emotional states, and their loss destabilizes that system.
Editorial
References
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The Grieving Brain — Mary-Frances O'Connor (2022)
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The Grieving Body — Mary-Frances O'Connor (2025)
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