Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard · June 22, 2026 · 01:46:48

Steve Aoki

Steve Aoki joins Dax Shepard to discuss his larger-than-life father, Rocky Aoki, founder of Benihana, and how competing for his approval shaped his relentless ambition. He reflects on growing up as a skater kid in Newport Beach, finding belonging in the straight-edge hardcore punk scene, and launching his record label Dim Mak from his living room. Aoki explains how DIY ethics made creativity feel accessible, why he still regrets turning down a cameo in Tropic Thunder, and how becoming a father shifted his priorities toward brain health, longevity, and being present.

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Compete for Father’s Approval as Fuel for Ambition

Steve Aoki explains that his relentless ambition was shaped by a childhood spent competing for the approval of his larger-than-life father, Benihana founder Rocky Aoki.

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DIY Culture Makes Creativity Accessible

Aoki credits the DIY ethos of the straight-edge hardcore punk scene with teaching him that anyone can create art and community without traditional gatekeepers.

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Regretting Turning Down Tropic Thunder

Steve Aoki still regrets turning down a cameo in the film Tropic Thunder, a missed opportunity that reminds him to say yes to unexpected invitations.

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Prioritizing Brain, Longevity, and Presence as a New Dad

Now a father, Aoki is shifting his focus from pure career ambition to optimizing brain health, longevity, and being present for his child.

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Misc

✧Grew up a skater kid in Newport Beach.

✧Was a member of the straight-edge hardcore punk scene.

✧Turned down a cameo in the film Tropic Thunder.

✧His father, Rocky Aoki, founded the Benihana restaurant chain and was a daredevil entrepreneur.

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