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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard · August 12, 2026 · 02:10:05

Marc Brackett (on emotional intelligence)

Psychologist and founding director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence Marc Brackett joins Dax Shepard to discuss the childhood trauma that shaped his life's work, the fallout from disclosing it on national television at 12, and the uncle whose simple compassion finally made him feel safe. The conversation covers how Brackett's ideas became the RULER program now reaching 10 million children, being called out by his mother-in-law for failing to regulate during lockdown, and the discovery that Yale students often mistake envy for stress. Brackett explains why avoiding emotion is harmful, how precisely naming a feeling changes what can be done with it, and why the best emotional allies listen instead of trying to fix.

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Canon

Marc explains why avoiding emotion is bad.
Marc says the best emotional allies listen instead of trying to fix.

Highlights

RULER: scaling emotional intelligence to 10 million children
Brackett and Dax talk about turning his ideas into the RULER program, which now reaches 10 million children.
Precisely naming a feeling changes what you can do with it
Brackett explains that precisely naming a feeling changes what you can do with it.

Editorial

Childhood trauma and public disclosure shaped his work
Marc Brackett discusses the childhood trauma that shaped his life's work and the fallout from disclosing it on national television at 12.

References

Permission to FeelMarc BrackettBrackett's book on emotional intelligence

Misc

Marc Brackett disclosed childhood trauma on national television at age 12.
His mother-in-law called him out for failing to regulate during lockdown.
Yale students often mistake envy for stress.
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